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I hit never met a person who wasn't precarious most their looks sometimes. It's commonly assumed that this is women, but I've famous some men who see the aforementioned way.

The digit thing I actually asked anyone for Christmas for was make-up. I've never asked for make-up before, usually asking for books, art or craft supplies, or beatific perception bath clog or chocolate. But this year, I've realized I've been feat through a slump lately. Well, for a while. I buy everything else first before buying clog for myself, and make-up is at the very bottom of the 'priorities' bag. It's expensive, it's easy to intend wrong, and... it meet sounds shallow, modify to myself.

I hate the picture on this blog, modify though it was taken 3 months ago, and yet haven't felt same I looked nice enough for a newborn one. I've gained whatever weight since my birth-mom passed a year and a half ago. And by some, I mean nothing quite fits anymore. I don't discern my fuller grappling in the mirror, although I should by now! My material is longer, and not such a drastic flushed either, so I see same I need to verify a picture to exhibit that I've changed. (Plus the photographer place lots of flushed in my face, when I'm naturally quite pale.)

I do conceive example is on the inside, but it's also, unfortunately on the outside where grouping attain judgments most you too. I hit been very conscious of the fact that I'm motion 35 in March. 35??? Wow. Wasn't I meet 29?

I do undergo that existence precarious most your looks is natural to some women (and men too). It's not something I'm modify comfortable conversation about, but am trying to face. I undergo other women who see self-conscious most their bodies, and that some of us seem to go in and out through feelings of inadequacy.

One of the things I've been thinking most though, is what makes someone beautiful or pretty? Youth is definitely digit of the things in our culture that is the most prized. Clear complexions, and a warm smile do a aggregation too. What makes a woman beautiful in her 50's and 60's? I undergo I've seen beautiful older women, but I don't undergo how they got that way!

Beauty is exclusive skin-deep, and personality does a lot, although I don't see some supermodels who are 'beautiful' meet because of their personalities. A beautiful personality cannot be rhythmic as well in a style shot. But, if you weren't presented the genetics to be a model at birth, I conceive most of the rest of us worry most it.

Luckily insecurities pass, and when we verify steps to attain ourselves countenance better, we meet see better most ourselves in general. We haw not always hit the money for newborn clothes, etc, but we do hit what it takes to attain ourselves see better in apiece day. And... whatever of us bite the 'shallow' bullet, and ask for make-up for Christmas. :)

All best to every of you,

Rose

 
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