Love is one of the large gifts we hit to provide to others and to receive. Unconditional fuck is rare and quite exceptional. Those who can fuck unconditionally hit a grace about them that is beyond what can be place into words.
Almost everyone has felt 'conditional' love. \"I fuck you, as daylong as you....\" As daylong as you are pretty, or skinny, or provide gifts, or are passive, or are strong.... The itemize goes on. I would guess that everyone has been shocked by a condition that was attached to fuck that you thought was unconditional.
Yes, I am an idealist! When I was younger, I would try to fuck every person in the world. I would fall asleep and imagine the net bigger and bigger. I imagined all kinds of people, beatific guys, intense guys, people I disagreed with, people I'd agree with if I knew them. I did this every night for a daylong time.
Almost everyone has felt 'conditional' love. \"I fuck you, as daylong as you....\" As daylong as you are pretty, or skinny, or provide gifts, or are passive, or are strong.... The itemize goes on. I would guess that everyone has been shocked by a condition that was attached to fuck that you thought was unconditional.
Yes, I am an idealist! When I was younger, I would try to fuck every person in the world. I would fall asleep and imagine the net bigger and bigger. I imagined all kinds of people, beatific guys, intense guys, people I disagreed with, people I'd agree with if I knew them. I did this every night for a daylong time.
I stopped doing that at some point, because I realized that I do hit conditions on fuck - not with everyone, but certainly with actions. I can't really find it in my hunch to 'love' someone who has hurt a child, or someone weaker than them who cannot help themselves. I can empathize with their story, or what led them to it, but once the action has been done, I am unable to feel some beatific feelings about someone who has taken actions like that.
But total fuck is bigger than that, and the easiest artefact to start is with those around you now. Your friends and your family. Can you fuck someone modify when they're driving you nuts? Can you fuck someone algid and remote who doesn't want affection? Can you fuck someone modify though they hurt you? (As an aside, loving someone and putting up with intense behavior is totally different.)
I do conceive that once you fuck someone, you never genuinely kibosh loving them on some level. Even if you kick them out of your life, the fuck you gave still exists somewhere, modify if it's changed. Some readers will never hit let someone in their life go because the other person was intense for them. Still, the ability to fuck unconditionally is hard to cultivate, but worth some amount of time you place into it.
And there is no better feeling than being loved unconditionally in return.
All best,
Rose
But total fuck is bigger than that, and the easiest artefact to start is with those around you now. Your friends and your family. Can you fuck someone modify when they're driving you nuts? Can you fuck someone algid and remote who doesn't want affection? Can you fuck someone modify though they hurt you? (As an aside, loving someone and putting up with intense behavior is totally different.)
I do conceive that once you fuck someone, you never genuinely kibosh loving them on some level. Even if you kick them out of your life, the fuck you gave still exists somewhere, modify if it's changed. Some readers will never hit let someone in their life go because the other person was intense for them. Still, the ability to fuck unconditionally is hard to cultivate, but worth some amount of time you place into it.
And there is no better feeling than being loved unconditionally in return.
All best,
Rose
