What three things do you need in your life?
If you have these then success is just a matter of time.
Here they are:
NUMBER ONE
Your attitude. Is life happening to you or are YOU making it happen?
Do you believe in fate or do you believe you control your own fate? Plant in your mind that it is not what events come your way through fate but how you handle what is thrown at you that matters. You can influence every aspect of your life through your choices and decisions. Don't deny your power in dealing with life.
Need a change, you can make it. Need to make an improvement - you can. Sometimes things seem to come out of the blue but you make them happen and you can find an opportunity in even the worst situations IF you have the right attitude.
NUMBER TWO
Don't give up ever if you really want something. Be determined and go for it. You may have doubts. Others may try to tell you it won't work. trust your desire. Do you really want to do it? Then NEVER let go of your dream and drive on. Success does not come quickly every time and it may elude you... But... You WILL succeed. Never give up.
NUMBER THREE
There is one more thing you need to change your life and find the success you are looking for. What is it?
OK - you've got the right attitude.
OK - you are determined to succeed and are not giving up...
The third thing you need is to..
Start.
Act now, don't wait.
Don't delay. If you do you allow self doubt and fear to grow. You allow opportunities to pass. You lose time. You invite those discouraging comments into your head. If you're sure of what you want then begin now. Today. Immediately.
Good luck and I sincerely wish these words plant in you the seed of success!
If you would like to learn much more about success and how to improve your life, your confidence and self esteem then please check out my e-book:
Self Esteem Secrets
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I told you I'd be updating you on what I'm up to on my trip over to England...
After spending a week at home with my parents I travelled north to the city of Durham, home to one of England's best universities. Durham is a pretty and historic city that is typical England (including the rain!)
I've started teaching at the university and will be here until the end of September.
What am I teaching?
I am teaching pre-sessional academic writing to Master's students studying Law.
I love teaching because it is a chance to give. Teaching combines sharing your experience and knowledge and helping young people to better themselves. Teaching here in Durham is really rewarding personally and gives me yet another purpose and reason in my life. It also brings variety as I normally live so far away from home in Turkey.
It is important to give of yourself and share what you know with the world. Helping others and working with them is a joy in itself. Open yourself up to giving instead of asking and you will find the world gives back to you anyway...
Likewise, variety in life is priceless. Don't stay in the safety of routine be adventurous and live a little. Push yourself for that's where success lies...
I'll be back again in a few days with more about what I'm up to and more inspiring posts will follow, be sure to come back soon...
Karl
Be sure to check out my e-book self esteem secrets while it's still on sale..
Can you buy happiness?
Normally the answer would be no...
Happiness comes from within how can you buy that? Well, here's a great poem that answers this question in an interesting way:
"You can't buy loyalty, they say
I bought it though, the other day;
You can't buy friendship, tried and true,
Well just the same, I bought that too.
I made my bid, and on the spot
Bought love and faith and a whole job lot
Of happiness, so all in all
The purchase price was pretty small.
I bought a single trusting heart,
That gave devotion from the start.
If you think these things are not for sale,
Buy a brown-eyed puppy with
a stump for a tail."
(unknown author)
This is my loving dog "Toffee". I can't tell you how much happiness she has given me over the years.
A pet not only helps you get rid of stress but changes your whole outlook. It is one great antidote to depression. Better than any anti-depressant for sure!
The poem above was taken with permission from: http://www.everydaygyaan.com/
Yesterday evening I arrived in Durham in the North of England, greeted by the rain but my enthusiasm is not dampened! I will be teaching as I did last year at Durham university for one month...
I'll be keeping you posted about my time there, a little info about the place and some inspiring posts about life in general...
Come back and check me out for the latest news on my trip home to the UK.
I have written about making good decisions before. It is so important...
Do you have difficult decisions to make?
What is the most important thing to remember before making important decisions?
Well if you had bought my self esteem secrets e-book you would have got my free 1,000 word report about making good choices to help you build your self esteem. I really put a lot of time and effort into that report and it's filled with great advice.
So what's the answer to that last question above??
- Don't make decisions for a negative reason.
You shouldn't make any important decision when you are in a negative mood because you will decide badly. Your view will be mistaken and you will only see the down side of the situation.
Don't say "I hate this or have to desperately change this..."
Or "I can't stand this anymore so..."
Or "I don't want this, I don't like this.."
Decide only when you are in a positive mood and can see things correctly and in balance. You MUST make decisions for a positive reason..
Decide to do something or make a change in order to improve or better your situation.
Decisions which help you develop or grow or move forward are positive decisions.
So my message for you today is:
IF YOU HAVE AN IMPORTANT DECISION TO MAKE WAIT UNTIL YOU FEEL POSITIVE AND MAKE POSITIVE DECISIONS
I recommend the bonus report "Making Choices that Help you Build your Self Esteem" which is free with my e-book "Self Esteem Secrets" - go and get it today
